How To Attract Guys

The rules of attraction are complex and infinite, Too infinite, in fact, that there is no hard and fast rule to attract a mate. There is no one formula that will apply to every guy out there in the planet. Albeit infinite and complex, there are a few pointers, we girls can go by on how to attract a guy.

1. Know what type of guys you intend to attract. Sure, that might seem like common sense but, knowing what type of guys you intend to attract narrows down the way to play the field. Seeing as conservative alpha-males may not be too keen on girls who always make the moves, and an outgoing extreme party-goer may not be too avid of geeky, overly self-conscious gals. Know what types the guys or guy you intend to attract go for. If you think you are Ms. Right, then go for it.

2. Know that you are more attractive than you put yourself out to be. Know your self-worth. Some girls are sometimes constrained to be too shy because they think they are less attractive than they really are. Ever wondered why models seem so hot even if they have rollers in their hair? It is because they have self-confidence! They know they have flaws, but everyone else does. It does not remove one from having too many assets. Be confident, it is amazing what confidence does to outer beauty.

3. Make sure that the guy you intend to attract knows you exist. Your ideal guy is Johnny Depp or James McAvoy. Sure, you believe you are destined to be together and have the world's most perfect children. But there is one problem: he does not know you. How do you expect for the guy of your dreams to be the least bit interested if he does not know you exist? How do you expect to attract a guy who does not even have an idea of your wonderful smile and traits? If the guy you want to attract knows you exist, that is one step closer to attraction.

4. Comb your hair. Know how to look good. Make a little effort in highlighting your assets. But do not go to extreme lengths just to attract a guy. Remember that you want to attract a guy who likes you for the way you are. A little self-improvement would not be bad. Try to look good. You know you are. When you know you look good, your confidence levels skyrocket compared to days when you know you don't. Confidence is key in attraction.

5. Smile more. Ever talked to someone who was sully and grumpy? Didn't that conversation left you feeling bad? There are too many benefits to smiling. One of that is to help you attract a guy. Seeing as smiling creates some contagious effect. If you smile, a genuine smile, it makes the person you are talking to feel less nervous and more comfortable in the situation. Making him feel comfortable and happy with you. But remember to never overdo it. You want to be remembered as the girl with the supermodel smile. Not as the girl who smiled like a silly clown. Be natural.